Why You Should Go Out Solo

There was a time when a boy would venture out in the wild unknown with nothing but his balls and his mind. There he would test himself against what the world and nature had in store for him. Through weathering these tests and overcoming them the boy would transform into a man. Through hardship and overcoming difficulty. The softness of the boy would give way to the hardness of the man. The dumb would never make it neither would the weak. Only the strong and capable would come out the other side. As only the strong and capable of worthy of their manhood.

We live in different times now. We live in a time of coddling and smothering. When any small shoot that a male may grow of his own masculinity is stopped out either by an overbearing mother, a nanny state, the school system, or any other host of cancerous things that plague our society. A male is not given the chance to develop into a man unless he takes it upon himself to do so. Like I said in The Primer a girl may biologically age into a woman but a man must earn his manhood, his age has nothing to do with it.

Go Out Alone

Most men would never think of going out to a bar (or just about anywhere) alone. Many worry about what others would think about them or are uncomfortable being around strangers without any support. I should rephrase this most males would never think of going out alone. Going out alone represents a great opportunity to be independent and to discover life and the world on your own without having the agendas of others play into it.

For example go to a bar with a girl and you have to deal with her. Go with a group and you have to do with them. Go with one good buddy (one of my preferred methods) and it isn’t the same as going out alone. When you go out alone it is just you and the world. If you get into trouble or are faced with danger it is only you that can deal with it. I think this is the primary reason most are scared to go out alone because of the fear of the unknown.

Well to be a man you must ride out and face your fears head on. So if you going out to a bar alone sounds daunting then that should be a clear sign that you should go out to a bar alone. Constantly facing your fears will put you above the level of boys and you will be a man in among a world of boys. Men will respect you and women will want you. But this is not something that happens instantaneously nor is it something that happens by conquering one fear. But going out alone is a start and a step in the right direction.

Some Advantages

You will stand out. A man who goes out alone stands out. Of course this goes both ways. Men who are looking for a target will notice a man alone more than one with a group. But if your smart, keep situational awareness, and know how to handle yourself in a fight they’ll move on. Remember predators look for the easy kill not a challenge. Also you’ll stand out to women. You’ll be that mysterious guy who has the balls to go out alone. It will give you the loner/bad boy vibe, a vibe that women absolutely love.

You’ll get a better glimpse of what is going on around you. You’ll notice things you never noticed before. The way people group up like sheep and never venture far out of their comfort zone. The intrigue you create in women who look at you. The dynamics of people. It’s actually quite entertaining to sit back and watch how everyone acts around you. You will feel independent and free in a world of chained slaves. Which will draw women to you like flies to honey.

Men should have no problem going out alone. They should have no problem asserting themselves unapologetically into the world. Women go out together in a pack, because they are insecure and weak. This isn’t mean to be an insult rather the truth. A woman’s weakness adds to her attractiveness. While when a man has weakness it is shameful. Men and women are different. This will piss of Feminists and MRA’s and anyone else who holds to unnatural beliefs but when you base your ideology on lies it always ends up crumbling beneath you anyways.

Summary

Going out alone is a way to test yourself against the world. You don’t need a wingman because you are a man. You don’t need a group. You don’t need a support system you are your own support system. You are a man. When you are out alone you naturally draw attention to yourself which can be great ways to pick up women with no fuss or dealing with others. You can be the loner bad boy that keep women up at night.

Fight against your comfort zone. Comfort is death. Men live on the hard edges of life not the gooey center that weakens him. Men used to brave the wilds alone. They’d fight other men, nature, and anything else that stood in their way. Now “men” need an entire group to go out at night alone. This is ridiculous. Learn to handle yourself and to handle your fear. Then go out and reap the rewards that are reserved for men and men alone.

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-Charles Sledge