There comes a time in every man’s life when he has to decide to stop playing around and get serious. To set himself on a path that’ll either lead to his complete development or total destruction, no half-way measures. To become the strongest man that he can be and thereby fulfill his purpose on this earth (whatever that may be). However there are a couple things a man must do to reach this next level. Eventually the lower tier self-improvement stuff must give way to something deeper, stronger, and more intense. Sort of like going from drinking light beer to whiskey to moonshine out of the jar.
Here I’m going to lay out 3 tenets that will help propel you to that moonshine level of strength. Most men will never reach this level, it’s not for everybody and that’s just fine by me. This is beyond just get in shape, make some money, don’t be a complete pushover type stuff, this is becoming a raging barbarian who treads the earth under his feet type stuff. Some of these are things that are active while others are passive. Some are actions to take others are things to be. But they all play a part in being the strongest man that you can be.
Tenet Of Being A Strong Man #1 – Hate Your Weakness
Hate actually is way too weak of a word here. You should declare an unceasing and uncompromising holy war on your weakness eliminating it utterly and completely. If weakness was a race you’d exterminate it to the last man, woman, and child. You must search for and root out weakness in your mind, body, and spirit and then eviscerate it completely. Burn it to the ground and then salt the earth that it was grown upon. Rip it up from the roots and toss it into the fire to be destroyed completely.
Step one is to identify your weaknesses and the best way to do this is having brothers who are going to call you out, not just on your bullshit, but also on not living to your highest potential. You should also be free of all numbing and distracting things that people use a crutches or agents to numb and blind them to their weakness instead of addressing it head on and killing it. Declare total and holy war on your weakness, let none escape and leave none alive.
Tenet Of Being A Strong Man #2 – Cause Primal Responses
If many (or most) woman do not get a primal lust for you and many (or most) men don’t have a primal fear of fighting you than something is wrong with you. I’ll put this another way if women don’t desire you (if you don’t wet a primal lust in them) and men do not respect you (if you don’t elicit a primal fear in them) then something is wrong. Yeah go ahead and bitch, say something about being defined by a woman or some other stupid bullshit but we all know deep down that this is the truth.
Do you cause fear in men and desire in women? A simple question and one that you should really think about. Fear in men and desire in woman is an extremely primal and important thing. These two things stem from the same source, being a man completely and in full. Strength, savagery, and spirit developed to a high level will cause these things to take place naturally. If you lack development as a man you will not cause this responses, plain and simple. And that means that it is something that you need to work on. Men should not want to fight you and women should want to fuck you, simple as that.
Tenet Of Being A Strong Man #3 – Hate Losing
If you don’t mind losing then you’ll never become the best man that you can be. A loss should be abhorrent to you. You should hate losing more than anything in the world. I’m not talking about failing which is inevitable for all of us from time to time I’m talking about losing which is different. Every loss should light a giant fire inside your soul to fuel you to train, fight, struggle and do whatever you have to do to ensure that you never suffer such a defeat again. The thought of losing should make you sick to your stomach.
This can be a fight, a deal, a competition of any sort. Losing should be loathsome to you. It’s not okay to lose and it’s sure as hell not okay to be a loser, anyone who tells you otherwise is a toxic fool who wishes your destruction (even if they don’t know it). Losing is an insult to your pride and honor and the pride and honor of your tribe. That alone should send you to training, struggling, and fighting at the thought of losing. A man’s pride is one of his most valuable possessions.
Become A Strong Man
Become the best that you can be. Embracing these tenets is a start. These alone will not make you the strongest man that you can be, they are just a piece, and they are just a start. But they are something. They are things to consider and then take action on. They are truths that help light the way forward. In order to fulfill our purpose for life we must become the strongest that we can possibly be, that is the only way. Live every moment to be the greatest that you can be.
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-Charles Sledge
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