It’s seem like all the red pill is good for anymore is weak men whining about “sluts” and “feminism” and making excuses for themselves. Hey bro just want to jerk off, smoke weed, and play video games all day? It’s fine man that doesn’t make you a weak pussy at all, after all feminism and such, all women evil sluts just out to get you, etc. etc. It’s totally cool to abdicate responsibility, let yourself dwindle into nothingness, and then blame society and women. These males descend into apathy which leads to weakness which leads to destruction.
And one of the biggest causes of this is something that I’ve seen many celebrate as being a good thing. And that is pornography. I’ve seen it argued “Well feminists are against porn therefore porn is good…hurr durr” first off this statement isn’t true as many feminists are 100% for porn and second even if it was so what? I’m pretty sure every feminist breathes air does that mean breathing air is bad? Aside from the stupidity of this “argument” what’s even worse about it, is that it rationalizes weakness.
The Magic
But before we get more into this I want you to imagine with me for a moment. I want you to imagine that I had a spray for sale that would make you more masculine, more aggressive, more attractive to women, more of a go getter, and have a more accurate view of how the world works. And what if I told you that this spray was free and that I demonstrated that beyond a shadow of a doubt it would work, would that be something that you were interested in? Of course it would, who wouldn’t want all those great benefits especially for free? Well the fact of the matter is that you can have all of those benefits for free.
And it comes from not watching porn or beating your meat (but releasing with women is obviously fine). Many men that I’ve talked with and coached have started having tremendous success not just with women but also in life once they cut out the porn completely. They started becoming their true selves and being the masculine lions that we were meant to be as opposed to the neutered sheep that porn makes out of men. Listless, apathetic, and weak, among other things. Same could be said of weed but at least men are more aware of the threat there.
One To One Correlation
Like I said I’ve seen pretty much a one to one correlation with guys who watch porn and have trouble attracting women (among other things). Porn saps your masculine drive while fucking up your brain in the process and sure as hell isn’t good for your spiritual health as a man either (and I don’t mean from a moral standpoint though that could be counted as well). With porn you’re poisoning yourself and sapping your masculine drive, edge, and power. All for some pixels on a screen. You’re keeping yourself from living a true masculine life. Through numbing yourself to your core and your masculine essence.
Porn has no part in a man’s life. Especially when there’s so much else a man can be doing to develop himself. Reading, writing, lifting, fighting, building your tribe, riding your motorcycle, going on a hike through nature, reaching out to a friend, talking to real girls, and a million other things leap to mind. Things aren’t hopeless if you get up and get after it. When it comes to beating porn something else I’ve noticed with guys is that motion beats meditation. Meaning that getting out and lifting, fighting, or just doing something that engages them and socializes them is far more effective then things like putting locks on the computer and so on and so forth. Porn is unnatural and unhealthy, and a cheap substitute for many different things from real women to real connections.
Quit The Porn, Start The Life
The masculine life of being all that you can be and living with a full heart and strength. Not living a numbed existence and worst of all numbed to your own fire and masculinity. But one where you are fully present and fully there. Don’t let the lies of society or the red pill trick you into becoming weak. A lie is a lie is a lie, no matter the source. And weakness is weakness is weakness, no matter the source. So if you want to attract women, live your best most masculine life possible, and accomplish all that you were put on this earth to accomplish and become legend then the first thing you need to do is cut out the porn completely. You’ll thank me later.
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-Charles Sledge
