The width and breadth of life on this earth is astounding. People do not lives the same lives. At first glance this is a very obvious statement, something that doesn’t need to be said. But when we look at it closer it bears some thought. Namely, why is this? Who is one persons experience of the world great and another’s awful? We have obvious factors to consider.
For example if you’re born rich and with power life has a much higher chance of being pleasant likewise if you’re born with good genetics and good health that also skews your life towards being good. And then of course we have attitude, some people have an attitude that everything’s awful and will work night and day to make it that way. While others have an attitude of they can overcome and do so. But it’s more than just these things.
Actions and lifestyle play a huge role in this as well. Why it is that some men can go from rags to riches, from defeat to victory, from vice to virtue while others stay mired in their limitations for the entirety of their lives? Action in a word. Habit. What they do in their day to day lives. This is the most powerful single concept to understand to change your life.
Your habits are your destiny. Your habits of character, of thought, and most of all of daily action are what forge or break your life. They are what will take you soaring to the heights or crashing to the depths. Because of this, there is fewer topics that are more important to talk about. Here we’re going to discuss three things to cut out of your life for maximum advantage to your life.
Thing To Cast Out Of Your Life #1 – Pornography
No secret here. Porn destroy masculinity. It corrupts and warps the mind, can cause the dick to not work, and above all else wastes that most valuable of resources, the only resource that you can never get more of, time. Many like to pretend that porn isn’t a problem, many are in denial. Porn adds nothing to a man’s life it only takes away. Porn is the source of most males’ issues with understanding dating and mating and getting what they want out of their relationships when it comes to women.
Porn is weakness, put simply. Porn is a failure to go out and get a real mate in the real world with real competition. Porn is laziness, weakness, and cowardice all wrapped up into something that weakens your mind, makes you addicted, and corrupts your soul at the same time. Porn and masculinity are opposites. Porn is about giving in, watching not doing, and stagnation. Masculinity is about forging on, acta non verba, and growth. The two fight against each other.
Don’t give in to porn it’s a weakness. Find a hobby that you can replace it with. Find something that challenges you and gives you purpose. Eat right, seriously this is essentially a superpower when it comes to overcoming addiction. Get good sleep, diet, exercise, socialize, take risks and chances. Have goals and things that you want to accomplish in life.
Thing To Cast Out Of Your Life #2 – Social Media
Real life happens in the real world. Sounds strange saying that but that’s where we’re at. Social media is, aggregate, the biggest wasting of time that has ever entered this world collectively. Something that has its hook in just about everyone on the planet. And given that time is our most valuable resources this is the biggest single threat to that most precious gift, time. Because of this it is best to throw this out of our lives. Once done, most quickly find that they don’t need it.
Many say “If I throw at social media how will I stay in contact with friends? How will I meet girls? How will others know what I’m doing with my life?” And here are my answers to that. For the first, use a phone. Text or even better call. And if you can’t find time to text or call then how much of a friend could they possibly be? With meeting girls this is just ridiculous. If you want girls go out in the world and find them. Not sitting on a computer or phone. And for the last part.
Who cares? Why do people have to know what you’re doing? What does that matter? What does that do for you? Take it out and you’ll find nothing changes. Why do others need to know what you’re doing? And even if you don’t care about any of the above questions it is still best to cast social media out of your life. It’s a waste of time to say the least.
Thing To Cast Out Of Your Life #3 – Fast Food
Food is no longer food, at least not how most of humanity for most of time would think of food. Things have been tampered with, changed, and polluted. What we call “normal” foods are affected by this meats, fruits and vegetables, and more. Much less what is called fast food. I know a lot of people who even in their thirties and forties have no yet learned how to cook. And because of this they don’t prepare food in advance, end up pressed for time, and end up resorting to fast food and the like.
Of the frankenfoods that have invaded the Western world and are being sent abroad, fast food is one of the worst offenders. Fast food shouldn’t really be considered food in the traditional sense. Freeze dried, microwaved, mystery “meat” patties have no place in any sane persons diet. Same with the salads or whatever “healthy” options that they provide. This food had been stripped of much of the micronutrient and the macronutrinet is not the same as from real food.
If you’re in a rush learn to cook organ meats. I can have liver from fridge to plate in less than a minute on the stove, not including clean up time. You have to think ahead with this. You have to make sure you have meat thawed for what you want, eggs stocked up, fresh fruit and vegetables, and so on and so forth. It takes some thought and preplanning, which are two skills to develop anyways. But even in a rush you don’t have to resort to fast food. Expand your horizons and see what’s out there.
To Be Among The Elect
I think even more today than ever before humanity is moving in two different directions. You have those that are essential de-evolving while a select few are using the many tools of the modern world to help forge themselves and walk the path they want to walk. The many tools of the modern world enslave most but you can also use them to get what you want in a more effective way. Look at the internet. It can be used for negative things like porn and social media but it can also be used for positive things like learning about new things and buying books and the like.
Learn to be in this world but not of it, to be among the elect, among the elite, among the noble, in the true sense of the world. The gap is only going to get wider and you want to make sure that you find yourself on the right side of it. Cut these things out of your life and you’ll be headed in the right direction.
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-Charles Sledge
