Bitterness has the capacity to destroy your life just as much as anything else. Though not talked about much and even when it is it is often encouraged. Masculinity and bitterness go against each other. One strives above situations and even when faced with the worst rises above, like an eagle. While the other drags one down into the depths to become poisoned and lifeless. When one experiences a traumatizing experience such as being exposed to the red pill truths. They naturally have a strong reaction to that. They go through different stages to adjust their mind and soul to the truth that has thrown back everything they thought they knew.
For many men they never get beyond the hurt. After being betrayed and lied to they naturally go through stages of anger and hated, and I don’t blame them for it. They should after what many men have been through. However and this is where I split off from much of the manosphere the point is to grow beyond it and become better for it. To channel this new knowledge into making themselves and their lives better.
Bitterness A Poison
When a man remains in bitterness it poisons him and his soul. When a man thinks that all women are sluts and evil and that to have a normal relationship is impossible because you know all women are sluts and equal is no victory. Look don’t get me wrong most women especially in Western cultures are not worth marrying or even having a long term relationship with nor does our society tell men about the truth about women’s biology and psychology or how they view men. Because of this many men end up burned.
But like a woman who gets burned by a man and then becomes a bitter Feminist the only thing that they are doing is hurting themselves. Men and women were created to be together. Having hated for women doesn’t help you. It doesn’t help the quality of your life, it doesn’t help you getting laid, it doesn’t help you as man. No matter how you look at it, it doesn’t help you. If you let it bitterness will destroy you completely. Bitterness is a poison.
From The Ashes
Men rise. Like the old saying goes you can’t keep a good man down and the truth is you can’t. When I say good man I don’t mean good by societies standards (worships women/is a slave) I mean good as in he is good at being a man. He is actually manly and masculine. He will rise above. Men always do. To whine and sulk is feminine and dishonorable. Men are not victims, and by trying to play one you only embrace the femininity our culture wants so desperately for you to do.
I’m not saying men can’t be burned or hurt or screwed over. Obviously they can and obviously many women and our government have absolutely no problem doing so. What I’m saying is that being negative and cultivating bitterness is not manly. Rising from the ashes is. Also when I say rise above I don’t mean that “take the higher road” B.S. that only sheltered yuppies could ever believe. I mean better yourselves and use it to fuel you in your mission.
Let Go Of The Past, Embrace The Future
Holding around a grudge against a woman (or anyone) who has done you wrong, does nothing. I gurantee that person isn’t thinking about you so why should you waste your time thinking about them. Think about yourself and the chart you want to set for your life. Work on that, not on how much you hate so and so and how the government/X/Y/Z has screwed you over. Maybe they have either get up and do something about it or move on.
Don’t wallow. Men don’t whine or complain. They don’t sit around and stew about how things are unfair. They either act to change their situation or right a wrong or shut up and move on. That may anger you but so be it. Negativity only brings you down and it does nothing but poison you. Get it out of your life and mind like you would get cancer cells out of your body. Because that’s what bitterness and negativity are a cancer of the mind a soul. A disease that will rot you from the inside out. Let go of the past and embrace the future.
Summary
This process takes time, I’m not saying you need to get over it at any certain date simply understand that anger, hatred, negativity, and bitterness cannot be the end goal. It cannot be where you end up and if it is then you have lost. Focus on yourself not on whoever is the cause of your bitterness that is the first step. Again this isn’t easy nor is it a short process. But it is a worthwhile process.
If you are curious for a place to start your journey to something greater past bitterness and anger I would encourage you to check out The Primer. Do the activities in it and let it serve as the foundation for reclaiming your life from the clutches of bitterness. Even if you don’t feel like it take action against you anger and hatred. It will take time but later you will look back and be glad you took action. Bitterness is a serious topic, I have seen it destroy men completely.
The point is bitterness and negativity has no place in a man’s life. Either get over them and find a way to do so or you will rot away. This is the truth. You may not like it but the truth has never cared about being liked. Rise above.
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-Charles Sledge
