Another old post found thought might be helpful, so posting it.
Or girlfriend, or significant other. This is something that should go without saying but needs to be addressed as to exactly why. No matter who you are or what your belief system is sleeping with another man’s wife is only going to end up badly. I’d suggest staying away from taken women of any kind as they’re a recipe for trouble and many women actually look to cause fights between men. In this article I’m going to lay down why it’s foolish to go after married or taken women for a whole host of reasons.
Even if you’re the most amoral person on earth this is still a stupid thing to do. I know it can be tempting and some women are great at making it as tempting as can be but this is an area where if you don’t stay strong you may end up losing your life. This is not something to mess around with and I see many who give advice in this area treat it like it’s no big deal. However this is something that could land you in a whole heap of trouble and with as many free, good looking, single women as there are out there it just doesn’t make sense.
Temptation
Look if you’re a reader of this site then it’s pretty much a given that you’re a man who takes care of his body through physical training, eats a diet for hormone optimization, and is better with money than most. You probably either have your own business and employees or are high up in your own business. This naturally is going to make you popular with women, which for a single guy (or even a married guy) is a very good thing. However this is not just going to make you popular with single women but taken and married women as well. At some point in time you will be tempted by a married woman, in today’s day and age it’s pretty much a given.
Especially if you work with a lot of women under you or do anything that involved one on one time such as personal training. Point is at one point or another a married woman is going to make herself available to you. This can be tempting especially if she’s in shape and a step above the average woman. She may throw all kinds of reasons why it’s no big deal or even noble of you to sleep with her. Her husband neglects/mistreats/abuses/doesn’t care about/is cheating on her or whatever else. Women though they have many good qualities are also masters of deception and rationalizations. You need to see these things for what they are, nonsense.
Morality Aside
So let’s talk about why this is a bad idea even if you have no morals. Have you ever seen highschoolers fight over a girl? We all have. It may be stupid yet when hormones and pride are involved in things stupid pretty much comes with the territory. Now these kids will fight tooth and nail because Bobby banged Becky who’s been dating Billy for two weeks. Heck in my highschool Billy probably would’ve pulled a knife on Bobby and Bobby would just have to pray that Billy wasn’t stupid enough to ruin both his and Bobby’s lives with it. Now you may chalk this up to hormones but things get even more intense when the relationship is real.
When a man’s been married to a woman he’s going to care about her and another man sleep with his woman not only destroys their relationship but perhaps more dangerously insults his pride at the highest level. Throwing your shit at his face and calling him a pussy would be less of an insult. And a man who has his pride insulted, life ruined, and love torn from it is a man with little to lose. And a man with little to lose is an extremely dangerous man. Even if he could have cared less about the woman his pride may cause him to do something drastic anyways. Sleeping with another man’s wife is asking to potentially get your teethed kicked in (at best) or far more likely filled full of holes or slashed to pieces. Does that sound like it’s worth it to you?
Moral Reasons
So aside from keeping your neck there are many other reasons to never sleep with another man’s wife. The prime one getting some cheap piece of ass isn’t worth destroying families or relationships. Sure I know there’s the whole “Hey if it’s not with you, it’ll just be with someone else” line of thinking which is stupid. Sure yeah a ho is a ho, but why put yourself into that situation and why be responsible for the outcome. Do you take advantage of every gullible person you meet just because somewhere down the road they’ll be taken advantage of? A cop who is an asshole is going to have someone throw it back in his face, does that then make it wise for you to do so?
Of course not. Not is you value not getting your shit kicked in. And it’s the same with this. Sure the woman may eventually cheat and there’s nothing you can do about that. But what you can do is make sure that it’s not going to happen with you and therefore you won’t be responsible (or liable) for the outcome. Getting in between a couple is never, ever a good or safe idea. Morally or otherwise. This topic isn’t a joke or something to be taken lightly the way most talking about this treat it.
Summary
There are plenty of good looking single free women in this world. I obviously have nothing against wanting to have non committed sex with women and not settle down. If that’s what you want that’s your perogative. However stay away from married and taken women. They’ll tempt you, something that many of them are very good at doing but it’s up to you to cut things before they become dangerous. Sleeping with a married woman could at best leave you in the hospital knowing you destroyed a family and more likely in the grave all for a piece of a ass. It’s just not worth it guys, ever. Stay away from married women period.
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-Charles Sledge
