I know that for many guys they want something more than just making money, banging sluts, and getting in shape. They want to leave a legacy and become legend. They want to as Jack Donovan would say “restart the world” and not though idle thoughts and intention but rather through directed and consistent action. They aren’t saying that they want to or should revolt against the modern world but are actually doing so through their actions. They are becoming the barbarians, wolves, and badasses that this world needs and that the snakes fear. However there is one part of this that I hear many talk about that they feel they’ll never be able to accomplish.
Me personally I want sons, what point is it for my ideals to survive and my blood to not? I want someone to give everything that I’ve learned to and pass down so that they can take it and make it even more. However I am no delusion about the state of modern women (same could be said of modern males (can’t have yin without yang) but that’s a topic for another time). Finding a women who would make a good wife and mother is like finding the winning lottery ticket (and one area I do not suggest compromise in). And honestly I can’t say this is something that every man will be able to have or accomplish in this age. But for those that do I have some advice.
The Sexual Marketplace, Tradition, Modernism, Finding A Wife, & You
I have hope for this next generation of women that are currently being raised, however obviously for most of us that is not where we would find our wives from. We have to make do with what is out there, and brother it ain’t pretty. For most men I’m going to recommend that they play the field, have their fun, and contribute to the collapse of Babylon in whatever way they can as marriage most likely isn’t in the cards (at least a successful one). However maybe you’re different and you want sons. In order to get sons you need a wife or willing woman (who isn’t going to make it hell on you to spend time with them). Maybe surrogates will be something to consider especially in the future but me I prefer things the old fashioned way.
The first thing I would say is you have to be completely 100% comfortable with not finding a wife and shouldn’t be seeking marriage first in your life (that’s the woman’s job). But again with all of that out of the way let’s actually talk about finding a woman who would make a good wife. I hear a lot about how all women are sluts, ugly, feminists, or some other undesirable traits. And while the number of each of the following groups certainly has risen dramatically obviously it does not cover all women.
What They’ll Never Tell You
Who’s they? I don’t know red pill, MGTOW, tradcons maybe? That’s not the point but here’s what they won’t tell you. First off there was never a “golden age” where any beta chump could get a great loyal wife who loved and adored him. Didn’t happen in the paleolithic, bronze, medieval, or modern age (including the 1950’s) and sure as hell ain’t happening now. Sure at times society encouraged and enforced marriage so many women ended up with males they didn’t really like or care for but the society they lived in punished infidelity too much for them to do anything about it (for the most part, always exceptions). Weak males have never been wanted or prized by women or society (or other men).
So the first thing is to drop the lie that there was this age when all women pined after weak losers. Alright with that out of the way let’s address some other myths. First off there are quality women out there who are worth a damn, attractive, feminine, who are “marriage/family” minded, and would make great wives and mothers. Is this the majority? Fuck no, but are they out there? Absolutely yes.
They are extremely rare and not available to the average man but they are there. While we’re on the subject I want to address two things about the red pill and MGTOW. First off these two groups attract two types of people losers and guys who are/make themselves into chads and talk about how all women are easy. Even I fell into this for quite some time. But here’s the thing we’re screening for the girls we interact with. I mean the average successful red pill guys spend his time in clubs, party places, and beaches and other places where it’s easy to get laid. Then extrapolates that’s how every woman on earth is.
He screens for easy women and then declares all women are easy. This isn’t to say that there aren’t easy girls in church or wherever else but let’s not pretend like the environment doesn’t matter at all. Yeah I know there are plenty of fake good girls out there who pretend to be chaste at church but are taking it six ways from Sunday every other day of the week. You’d have to be an idiot to not realize that. However my point is that there are girls where it’s not an act and who do want more than just to fuck hot guys or take advantage of wealthy ones. But that they are rare.
The Point Of All Of This
So now for my point. In order to attract these girls you have to be very high value. The first is because like attracts like. The loser MGTOW attracts loser women, the manipulative nice guy attracts manipulative women, the rich guy who has nothing going for him attracts gold diggers who have nothing going for them, the “hawt” (in girl speak) gym guy who fucks hot sloots, the rich playboy attracts whores, and so on and so forth. Like attracts like. So if you want to attract the pretty, chaste, girl who’d make a decent wife and mother and wants to then what should you be?
A hot, successful, well put together guy that’s going to attract such a rare specimen. Obviously polarity is still involved you still need to be a man, strong, a bit of a bad boy, and all of that but you get my major point. If you’re not attracting the women you want whether in terms of quality and quantity then the first thing you need to do is look in the mirror (or move, or both). The more you develop not only the more you’ll be better able to separate the “wheat from the chaff” so to speak. Most of getting what you want out of life comes down to working on yourself and developing into the person you need to be to attract that which you want. Don’t let limiting mindsets or ideologies hold you back from reality (many might want to read that sentence twice).
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-Charles Sledge
