There is no one coming to save you. Boys growing up aren’t told this enough. As a man you must forge yourself into a man capable of facing this world or you will be crushed by it. There is no safety net for men. The world has no pity for a weak male. You will be crushed, spat on, and used if you don’t not rise and become powerful. This might sound harsh, that’s because it is. It might sound unfair, that’s because it is. But most important it is the truth. A man either rises and soars like the eagle or is trodden underfoot like the worm. Men sink or swim, they don’t float.
The world is not a nice or a friendly place. You experience freedom in this world there are so many things that a man must master. Just like the only countries who can have peace are those with who it is too costly to go to war with. It is the same with men. The only way for a man to have peace is to be powerful. It’s important to take this gut shot earlier rather than later. The earlier it is understood the better off you will be.
It Sucks To Suck
It sucks to suck. Any male who seeks pity will only be destroyed. Males must man up or they will be ran straight over. Unlike women and children who can be weak and get a pass this option does not exist for males and it never will. A male is thrown into the wolves’ den and expected to come out alive. The strong make it and the weak do not. Many males have been raised to believe that they can be like women, clueless and adrift (not that all women are like this) and come out fine.
But that is not going to happen. Governments, religions, and the world itself has no pity or remorse for a weak male and sees him as nothing more than an easy target. When the storm rages, when the wolves are at the door, there is no refuge or hiding place for a man. His only option is to stand and fight. The outcome being either victory or death. A man can only have comfort in relation to his power and strength. And even then comfort should never even be close to a man’s top priority.
Master Himself
However being a man is not all doom and gloom. For when a male forged himself into a man then the tables turn. Women and children can never learn to swim only float around. A man can be trodden on or he can take flight, women and children simply plod along. However this flight only takes place when a man has mastered himself and has undergone the transformation from boy to man. It cannot and will not happen before that time.
A man must embrace and understand his innate masculinity. He must become master over women, over wealth, and over battle. To the modern neutered male this might sound old fashioned or “out there” but it is the truth. In stabler societies it probably isn’t this bad but the society we live in is against men, family, and the health of society. The media, government, law system, corporations, and just about everything else will be against you. You must be strong to survive.
Put Yourself Through The Fire
Imagine how much more soldiers would be shell shocked if they never went through basic training. How much more they would be torn apart. It is only through dedicated training that they are able to keep a handle on being sent into battle (and sometimes that isn’t enough). Males need to undergo training to make it in this world as well or they will be torn to little pieces when they are thrown into the wolves den. As all males eventually are. I noted above that this training will have to do with mastering oneself, as well as the realms of women, wealth, and battle.
Fathers used to train their sons to be able to make it in the world but no more. The generation before us has failed us on every single last level, we must take it into our own hands to become men. Believe it or not but for me this all began with reading. Getting exposed to a different way of thinking that eventually led me to embracing my masculinity and rising up.
Summary
No one is coming to save you. You must do it on your own and lead yourself out of the situation that you are in. You have to pull yourself out by your bootstraps or you will sink and die in the mud. At first this realization may piss you off especially when you’ve been indoctrinated in blue pill thinking. But reality is reality regardless of how you feel. And remember what waits for you on the other side.
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-Charles Sledge
Men cant be men until they have the balls to stand up for their
beliefs. Men today, even men my age are afraid to stand against
the weak masses! For instance, you will never make me believe
its okay to be gay or transgender, you will never make me believe
that women are as strong as men.
Men are afraid to be men, men care to much what other weak
men say, instead of standing on their real values and principles!
Its more than a trip to the gym that makes you a man, adversity,
high standards, experience.
If a man can’t support himself, he is not much if a man, if he
bends over and takes it from society, not much of a man.
Exactly Johnny, great comment.
I teach my son to be a real man. I don’t have time for crying or coddling with him. Hes 9 and if he wants sympathy, he can go to his mother. It is harsh, but I’m doing him a justice by not becoming his emotional tampon or adult friend.
He is an MMA fighter and soccer player, smart, and social. Its crazy seeing him transform into a man by being shown how to think. I don’t demonize his masculinity, but embrace it and then he does the same.
This is how we defeat the leftist feminist demons. Raising a traditional family. To do that, you need a real man to take charge of it.
You are helping you son tremendously. Most think that by being harsh it comes from a place of uncaring when it’s the opposite. We are harsh because we care. Just like a drill instructor showing no mercy to those under him. He does so not because he is sadistic but rather because he know the hell that the recruits under him will face one day and he is making damn sure that they are prepared for it. Great comment.
“We are harsh because we care. ”
That is the best way to describe it. All the teachers I had growing up that I actually learned things from were male, and they were harsh. I want my children and all men to realize that you have to have the balls to fight in any situation. A person who is shielded from the harsh realities of the world emerges as a strange being. The real world comes in like a freight train, destroying their imagined reality and leaving them helpless.
Exactly. The government and others will protect women but a man unless he has a disability or something is going to be left out to get eaten by the wolves. He needs to be prepared for this so that he can survive and thrive.
Precisely. I was raised fairly coddled by overprotective parents and I can assure you, it did nothing to help me later in life. Fortunately, I was fairly rebellious and naturally tried to do things for myself and not rely solely on my parents to do everything for me, but there’s still quite a bit to deprogram.
At least you’re on the right path. That’s what matters most. A man who keeps moving forward will overtake those that started further on the path than him if they do nothing or are slow.
Don’t get me wrong, i already completely understand that life, reality, society is NOT fair, i know that already, but just wondering, do you think it’s a human nature, instinctive natural thought or feeling to wish that life, reality was fair? or is that the result of wrong parental upbringing(as if a guy grows up being either spoiled or coddled by his parents too much growing up), certain childhood social experiences.
Because i got this response from somewhere when i saw someone explaining to someone that life is not fair: “It is a very human thing to think that everything must be fair; that
everyone should be given equal opportunities and that everyone should be
rewarded equally for the same amount of work. But that just isn’t how
the world works.”
So makes me wonder, if its a natural, instinctive thought or wish, or if its the result of being socialized into thinking the wrong way, as what i said before such as bad parental upbringing or childhood social experiences.
You know that’s a good question. I don’t know that its a natural human inclination to want to believe that necessarily but its certainly a lie that’s pounded into us since birth.
I m 22 years old and and i was rised as a beta…i bought your book the primer and i m doing all that i can to change my life..thank you charles
No problem Ivan thank you for the support.