This is another guest post from Jad of The Alpha Life.com a site dedicated to helping men develop in the arenas of dating, fitness, and wealth. In today’s article Jad talks about the pros and cons of day game versus night game and which may work better for you. Enjoy.
If you are into the seduction and “Pick-up” community, surely you have heard about night and day game, and for those who are new into this stuff and like to meet new girls outside of their social circle must understand the difference between these two game types alternative.
Night game basically is approaching girls or sets in clubs, bars, and nightclubs where usually people go out to drink, have fun, and sometimes to socialize with others. As for Day game is to approach girls at anyplace and anytime, could be in daytime or night time even, where usually the girls are just doing daily routines, and there are not in any set up or readiness to meet or socialize with strangers.
You can meet girls and have great dates from day game and night game. But which is better for you and for your game style? I‘ll help you decide by listing below the pros and cons of each.
NIGHT GAME PROS
- You can find a lot of young girls in a small area if you go to bars at clubs
- Girls are usually open to socializing and having conversations with strangers
- Everyone is in a good mood and having fun, and most people are drinking
- The girls are dressed up, and some of them are here to meet new potential partners or have one night stand
- Girls enjoy dancing and you can too
- It’s easy to figure out if the girl is with her boyfriend or just with some friends
NIGHT GAME CONS
- Going to bars and clubs can be sometimes expensive, especially if you enjoy drinking
- The music can be too loud to have a good conversation with a girl
- You are competing with a lot of others guys
- Girls are approached by many guys, most of them are drunk and creepy
- Girls are not alone, usually hanging out in groups
DAY GAME PROS
- No competition with other guys
- It costs you nothing, no entrance fees, no minimum charges…
- No loud music, so you don’t need to be in a high state
- You can practice at anytime
- You can meet different type of girls
- The girls are alone most of the times
- You can go out alone, no need for wingman
DAY GAME CONS
- Hard to pull directly
- Day game approach is harder( specially for beginners with approach anxiety)
- Girls are not ready to be approached and can be in a bad mood
- You cannot rely on drinking
- The volume of young girls you can meet daytime is small compared to clubs and bars
From my personal experience, day game is likely to get you quality dates and quality girls. You will get surely some brutal rejections, maybe some girls are angry from their jobs, they didn’t feel looking good that day, or she may have a boyfriend…But the right girls will see you as an ultimate confident man when approaching her genuinely in the streets.
Few men have the guts to do day game, it’s harder for a guy who is new to approaching, daytime can be a lot more intimidating. But trust after doing 30 approaches the game will become easy, and you will find out that some type of girls that look bitchy and mean in clubs are more receptive at daytime. If you are looking for same-day lay, night game is your court, especially if you have some good wingmen, night game is a high intensity environment than require high state from your side. Wingmen are needed to pump each other states and to take care of the girl friend or friends.
Finally, for someone who wants results and wants to increase their true confidence, I recommend doing both. Be the alpha man who can open a conversation with a hot girl anywhere and in any situation. Be the guy who can approach the hottest girl in the club without giving a damn…
