Every day there is another story of a hot blonde teacher hooking up with her teenage student, and she’s usually married. Yet every day there are grown men out there complaining about not being able to get laid and women not paying them any attention. Doesn’t these two things happening in the same reality seem a bit odd to you? Now you might say “Well those teachers are just perverts” and there may be something to that.
But I think it’s something different, just like when you see a teacher run away with his 18 year old student (law’s a little harsher on men for underage sex, otherwise you’d see more older men with teenage brides/girlfriends) from his bitchy wife. Likewise you see women who sleep with their students, and these women aren’t old gross women no one wants but attractive women who most guys wouldn’t mind going a couple rounds with.
There Is No Competition
Let me explain what you’re seeing here. These women for the most part are simply going after the males around them that are in best shape and most masculine and in their case because of the pathetic nature of the modern Western man those males happen to be teenage boys. Think about that. Seriously sit down and think about that. Sure a few of those women might just have weird perversions for young boys but there’s far too many for it to simply be just that. The fact of the matter is that for any man that has a shred of masculinity and keeps himself in shape that there is no competition, even if you’re a teenage boy as these cases have revealed.
Quick story time. I remember in 8th grade me and my buddy helping this woman in her 30’s who recently got divorced move. I was in pretty decent shape as I boxed and played football as was my friend. Anyways after helping her move she had talked about having a party later. We joked about coming to the party. She laughed and said something along the lines of “I’d love for you boys to come” (it’s been a long time so memory is a bit hazy) and smiled at us. Nothing came of it as we couldn’t get rides but this is just one example of many I can think of when older women who were good looking and in shape showing interest in me.
I never realized why until later in life. Despite being young I was still in shape and as masculine as I could be at a young age to which these women of all ages responded to. I could go on with more stories but I’ll save those for another time or a private chat after a few drinks. Point is, being in shape and masculine propelled me over the older men who may have had more money and means but were weak, feminine, and/or out of shape. It’s a bit ridiculous to think of and I’m sure this rarely if ever happens in healthy societies but as you know Western society is anything but healthy.
What’s Your Excuse
What this means for is that if you’re complaining about women not paying attention to you or wanting to sleep with you, that you have no one but yourself to blame. That might sound harsh and not what you want to hear but it is the truth and it’s only the truth that can set you free. Seriously if 15 year old boys are outperforming you then something is wrong. Here’s what you need to do get in shape, dress nice, have a masculine edge and you’ll blow out 99% of the “competition” right now, it’s never been so damn easy to be a stud. Sure it takes work and discipline to get in shape and be masculine but so what? I know this is some tough love but it’s also what many need to hear.
These are things that you should be doing anyways. There is literally no competition out there. Don’t be fat and have the T levels of an 80 year old women and you’re already ahead of the game. Think about that. Sure it’s a slight exaggeration but still, it’s not that hard. Sure things like game can help and are great but without the foundation of being in shape (aka looking like a man) and being masculine none of that matters. Trust me having bulging biceps will get you more girls than being “witty” or whatever.
It’s A Jungle Out There
Whether we’re talking about the sexual marketplace or anything else regarding humans remember that the animal side has a much bigger sway on our actions than the higher side. And this is especially true for women. I should note that I do not condone what these women or men who sleep with their students do, breaking the law is breaking the law and is wrong. However understanding the reasons behind it and human nature can help illuminate certain facts that you can use to aid in your own life.
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-Charles Sledge
