3 Areas You Must Be Proficient In To Call Yourself A Man

Usually whenever I see a headline that has to do with being a man I know I’m going to puke, especially with the mainstream media. However this is different. This article isn’t about what some liberal yuppie boy thinks is going to sound good to his female boss, this is about actual manhood. Manhood is about many different things, one of the key things being the development of skills and knowledge in certain key areas. The three areas that are listed here are by no means an exhaustive list but they do provide a solid foundation upon which to expand.

Going from boy to man is not something that happens automatically like when a girl becomes a woman. Your balls dropping doesn’t mean you have become a man. You may have gone from boy to male but not from boy to man. That requires work and the acquirement of certain skills. Much of life really comes down to acquiring and stacking skills. These three skills are the most essential to learn to live a life filled with freedom and to be fully a man.

The First Skill – Business

By business I mean pretty much anything and everything related to the skill of acquiring money. This could include things like learning a trade, copywriting, marketing, and sales to things like having an entrepreneurial mindset. Point is you have to learn to support yourself. You can’t be fully a man and be reliant on mommy and daddy, the government, or even a corporate job where you boss could can you at any moment (and probably will, especially if you don’t belong to a protected class). You must be independent and be able to take care of yourself.

You cannot rely on others to employ you or to keep you afloat. That “secure” job you have now working for someone you respect could do a complete 180 when next month a new company buys it, fires your boss, and proceeds to make your life a living hell before firing you for kicks at the end. Learn business skills or get screwed, learn how to handle yourself or get used to getting trampled on by others. This is the harsh reality of the world. Work for someone else and you’ll always be a slave. You must know how to go out and acquire money for yourself.

The Second Skill – Seduction

In addition to knowing how to go out and get money you must also know how to go out and get women. Having an understanding of women is just as important as having an understanding of money. A boy can’t just hope to end up with the right girl and just hope that his marriage will last. He must take deliberate actions to have the relationship with women that he wants. Whether that’s a rotating harem or a family it doesn’t matter. Neither will be successful without and understanding of women and how to seduce them.

You must know how to be irresistible to women. Look every man wants a woman. Even men who hate women still have sexual feelings for them just like feminists still have sexual desires for men, especially masculine men. Because despite their hate or programming (whether feminist or MRA) they still have their same biology. You can’t go through life a virgin and be fulfilled. The biological urge is too strong. Reproduction is from a biological standpoint our highest calling and one we must be able to fulfill (even if we don’t choose to do so).

The Third Skill – Survival

There was a time when weak males were naturally culled by nature leaving only the strong. While we don’t live in a world where we have to worry about being a tiger’s lunch we still need to be able to defend ourselves. Even if you never have to call on your survival skills you still need to have them. Sort of like insurance you may never need it but when you do need, you need it really bad. You may never have to throw a punch or draw on someone but the second you do, you’d better be prepared.

Just like in seduction we have the sexual pyramid in survival there are categories of males as well. Criminals know this. They prey on those that are unsuspecting and show weakness, just like bullies. I’m not saying you have to become a Navy SEAL or anything simply know how to handle yourself in a dangerous situation. Learn how to fight. You may never need it that doesn’t mean it is not an essential skill to learn.

Summary

Becoming proficient in these three skills will put you ahead of the pack and ensure that you have a high quality of life that cannot be taken away from you. You will be able to withstand whatever the world throws at you. You will laugh at recessions, shit tests, and criminals because you know how to handle each and everyone. Nothing will shake you, you will be a man. Standing firm in the world while everything collapses and changes around you. You will be the oak in the storm, the mountain that never changes.

Don’t be the man who builds his house upon the sand (what the mainstream says you need to learn) but instead build your house upon the rock (what reality says you need to learn) and when the rains come you will not be fazed. And always remember be a man and everything else falls into place. If you have sons or younger male relatives I would strongly encourage you either share this article with them or at least convey to them the meaning. They will thank you down the line, as will I.

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-Charles Sledge