I know that my content has shifted over the past couple of years and I know not everyone has been a fan of this. Many have asked why I don’t write more articles about getting girls and getting a six pack and the like. And there’s many a reason for this. One is that for the most part everything about women has already been written, it’s not a hard subject to master. Matter of fact it’s super easy and shouldn’t take that long.
But there’s also irony there. Because the way to attract many women and have the sex/dating/marriage life that you want is not to put women first and instead focus on investing in yourself and building things up. Work on yourself, become healthy physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially and you’ll have more women then you know what to do with. Especially once you learn the basics of proper male to female interactions.
You don’t need rules or formulas, you need a core, a basis of masculinity. A masculine man will never have problem finding women to have relationships with, granted that he’s stable financially and the like. And that’s just for logistic reasons, but that’s beyond the scope of this article. Anyways I know many wish for more content like that but there is so many important facets to being a man that I don’t want to waste too much more time with it.
The Artistic Side Of Man
Again work on yourself and the women will come. And one great way to work on yourself is developing your creative and artistic side. If there is one thing a properly functioning healthy man is, he’s a creator. He creates things. Whether it’s a business, or an idea, an invention, a plan, a life that he wants. Men create, it’s one of the most fundamental parts of who we are as men. Creativity is not some artsy-fartsy thing for males wearing berets who are bereft of testosterone. No artistic sense and creativity have always been the hallmark of masculine men.
Leaving this side underdeveloped limits your enjoyment and appreciation of life. It keeps you from seeing the connections between things, noticing the beauty in life, and understanding the higher order of things. All things that no man’s life should be without. It’s very hard to put into words what an artistic sensibility will “give” you as a man. It’s one of those things that I just recommend you try and it won’t take long for you to see the benefit.
We are always in the process of creating, always in the process of bringing about the life that we want or don’t want. It’s important for men that we do as Pook says and “unite our dream and day” that’s another way of saying make your dreams reality. Every action that you take every day either takes you closer to living a dream or closer to living a life that you don’t want. We are always creating but it pays to take this process even deeper.
Finding Ways For Artistic Creativity
So many males today and so, I’m not even sure what the word is, tightened up. They’re tightened up with their emotions, their expressions, and their thoughts. They don’t have any flow or relaxation to them. And both strength and speed come from relaxation. They’ve been turned into little computers, little achiever robots that never achieve anything except make their masters richer. And this may work great for those that are at the top but it’s not doing any benefit for the average man.
Artistic expression is a good way for a man to relax and discover a way to create something that has benefit for himself and his soul and not just his employer, parents, or others he serves. But how to do this? The options are really limitless. There’s things like sketching, something I’ve done a few classes on and find interesting. There’s painting, sculpting, woodworking, hell even blacksmithing if you can afford the tools.
It’s really about what you want and what you find interesting. What works for you, just like so many other things in life. Maybe you put on some relaxing music, personally been into bamboo flutes lately, and sketch what you see outside your window or if you live in the city go on a walk to the park and sketch something there. Or people sitting outside or something. Again find what works for you. You don’t have to become the next Frazetta, just work on expressing yourself artistically and see what comes up.
Artistic Expression For Self-Knowledge
Also as you create and express your creative side you’ll learn things about yourself that you never knew before. Things that could be life changing but more likely will simply be interesting and enlightening. See what you create and why. What draws you, what fires up you soul? What makes you stay awake at night wanting to create more of? What sticks with you and won’t leave you. What ideas? What expressions?
As you think and ponder on all of this you’ll learn more and more about yourself. It’s not the only benefit of artistic expression nor is it necessarily the main benefit but it’s one more thing there. I think a lot of males that are struggling with the myriad of challenges in the modern world would benefit greatly from having a little more self-knowledge. Relax, create, and learn about yourself.
What could be better than that?
