Is There A “Best Place” To Find A Marriageable Woman?

So despite the cryings of weak men there are still many marriages that are going great and marriageable women out there. Is the average sap capable of it or going to find one of these women? No, but if you’re expecting to have anything in life by being average your delusional. As I get older more and more men that I know are getting married and starting families. And no I’m not talking about weak men “afraid of being alone” or doing it “because it’s the right thing” or whatever. I’m talking about men with many options choosing a single woman because they want sons and to leave a legacy.

Something I respect 100% even if I’m not quite at that point in my life. And yes these men were “alpha” by every definition (which is a point I’ll cover later). I don’t hang around weak men. But I do realize that eventually as many men realize that banging sloots no matter how hot just isn’t that fulfilling. They want more. They want to become legend and leave a legacy that echoes throughout time. Yeah get in shape, be attractive to women, and make money but that’s just the start which brings me to my first point.

Like Attracts Like

Above all else this is the number one thing you can understand with getting married. If you’re a loser and yet expect a virgin wife who cooks and cleans for you and worships you, you’re completely delusional. This has never happened (despite popular belief) and never will. So go ahead and drop that delusion and no it’s not because of those evil feminists, it’s because reality has never worked this way. If you want a quality women then you have to be a quality man. And what makes a quality man and what makes a quality women are not the same things, sometimes they’re even opposites.

So get in shape, make money, be attractive to women, be the strongest man that you can be. Develop yourself into a man that’s going to attract a good wife. Look there never has been and never will be a true good beta marriage in the modern age. You can’t do this without being alpha to the core. Yeah these phrases are overused and can be taken to ridiculous extremes but if you get the general idea then you get what I’m talking about. You’re not going to attract a marriageable woman without being a high value man yourself. Like attracts like first and foremost. But with that out of the way let’s talk about where to find a woman who will make a good wife once you have this crucial first base covered.

Some Patterns I’ve Noticed

Most women in the modern world are whores, they just don’t get paid for it. And I don’t say this in a crass or mean way, but rather a factual way. I have nothing against whores and whoredom as a matter of fact and think it should be legal (topic for another time) and think there’s no “shame” in a woman being an honest whore (honest key word). The issue is you have whores pretending to be marriageable women. I’d say that (being generous) maybe 20% (10% more likely) of women out there are marriage minded and after more than an exciting bad boy or rich guy to take advantage off but actually want a quality man and actually stick to that not giving up or in. Then there are 20% that are “here for the party” nothing more and nothing less and never pretend to be otherwise.

But then you have the remaining 60% who act one way or the other depending on the man that they are with. They claim to be a good girl but then will blow a hot guy they just met. Over time it’s pretty easy to identify which girls are which and despite popular whining of the red pill the first group does in fact exist (though again 20% in the Western world is probably being generous) but you have to be pretty top quality to attract them (which most guys in the red pill are obviously not). So with all of this being said let’s talk about what gives you the best chance of finding that 20% (give or take).

Where To Find

So some patterns I’ve noticed with guys I know finding a halfway decent wife…but before I begin so I’m not flooded with red pill guys who are going to go on and on about how all women are liars, snakes, manipulators, evil demons from the pits of hell, etc. let me explain some things. First off no they’re not, you’re just a loser who can only attract such women and two all I’m saying here is that these are some trends that will increase the likelihood of finding a marriageable woman (nothing more and nothing less) and obviously there are always exceptions. Now with that being said let’s move on.

So a couple of things I’ve noticed with successful marriages I’ve seen. First off being alpha isn’t enough if you choose the wrong woman. So for example things like a high notch count, no father in the picture, and lack of respect for you or men in general automatically will rule a woman out. Seen alpha guys destroyed by marriages to the wrong woman. But for the guys who did find a good girl she was usually religious (not a prude and not using it as a cover but believes in God, morality, family, and the like and actually cares about it) from a more right wing Christian denomination (Baptist seems to be common but that could be geography) and then rural upbringing another factor.

Do these two things guarantee a good wife? Abso-fucking-lutely not and I never said they did. What I am saying is that overall a small town rural atmosphere and a religious (but not too much) upbringing seems to increase the chances (and nothing else). Again if you’re a loser none of this matters but if you’re a guy who’s developed himself to a high level these places make it more likely to find a marriageable woman. More likely, nothing more and nothing less. And for the record no I don’t give a shit about the exceptions because obviously they’re there, so you’re whole “I knew a rural Baptist girl and she was the biggest slut ever” yeah so did I, what’s your point? That it’s better to find a wife in a Vegas nightclub? Exactly.

As with everything most male’s problems would be solved by working on themselves, developing themselves, and going after their mission and dreams in life. Marriage is no exception. Whether you want a harem of beautiful women or a loyal pretty wife who’s an amazing mother and wife you have to be a in demand high quality man yourself. Winners always win and losers always lose. In love, lust, and everything else. So don’t be a loser. Also I’m well aware that there are risks to marriage which is why I only recommend it to men who have their shit together and who’s wives are going to respect (key word there) them. Anyway heard this come up so offering my two cents, take it as you will.

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-Charles Sledge