There are very few if any guarantees in this life and in this world. The best that one can do is stack the odds in their favor, do their best, and hope fate doesn’t screw them over. That might sound a little dark or cynical but it’s closer to the truth than most would hope. But what does that have to do with finding your unicorn?
In part 2 of this series, designed to help men find a woman worth marrying and marry her (find their unicorn) we’re going to talk about how to stack the odds in your favor that you’ll find a woman that is worth marrying. The first thing we covered is that in order for this to work you yourself need to a man that a woman with value would want to marry. Which means a couple of different things.
First off it means having your bases covered as far as being an attractive and masculine man goes. It means having things going on in your life, being an interesting and passionate person, having character (something I glossed over but is important), being in decent shape, and so on and so forth. Without those bases covered don’t expect good marriageable women to be lining up to get a crack at you.
Never Stop Improving
First and foremost you should always be working on yourself and your development. This is man’s fate since birth and doesn’t stop until he dies (and even then who knows). A man must be moving forward at all times. This doesn’t mean that you can’t rest or have peace or enjoy the world around you. Just that you should always overall be working towards developing yourself into a higher and higher level.
You should always be investing in yourself and your development. This includes when looking for a wife/girlfriend, when having a wife/girlfriend, and at literally any other time in your life. This is a given and something that needs to be kept in focus no matter what part of the journey that you are on.
Also remember that like attracts like. So if you keep attracting women who are all X, Y, and Z then it’s a pretty safe bet that you are X, Y, and Z yourself and need to take a look in the mirror. Also understand that the modern world and society are in complete opposition to healthy and happy marriages (and relationships in general but that’s another story) so you’ll have your work cut out for you.
But here I’m going to go over three factors that will increase your chances of finding a good marriageble woman out there to keep in mind going forward.
Religious Over Non-Religious
I’m going to include a caveat in the last paragraph so before the comments get bombed with exceptions I completely understand they exist. Now obviously just because a girl is religious does not mean she is marriage material (nor does any other factor on this list). Rather here is what this means and what I’m getting at.
Line up 100 religious girls and line up 100 non-religious girls and on average (again on average) the religious girls are going to be more marriage minded and better marriage material…on average. Yeah there are obviously exceptions and one must keep their eyes open but if we’re being honest here, religious girls overall provide a better “pool” than non-religious.
Homeschooled Over Public
You’ll notice a trend with these in that anything that takes a girl away from mainstream Communist/Capitalist society makes them a better prospect for a wife. There is a lot that could be said about this but we won’t go into it here. But a girl who is homeschooled over one who goes to public school is again on average going to be a girl who is more likely to make a better wife.
Obviously one must judge each person by their individual character but again we’re talking about stacking the odds in our favor and giving us the greatest likelihood of finding what one wants. And in this case girls who are homeschooled are going to be better suited than those that went to public school. There are exceptions and you have to watch the ricochet effect (girls going crazy when have taste of freedom) but again on average going to be a better choice.
Rural Over City
Again the further one gets away from the modern world the more likely they’ll make a better wife. Obviously there are numerous rural girls who would make absolutely horrible wives (seen plenty) and there are girls being raised in the heart of the city and all that it offers who would make great wives. But again line up 100 from the country and 100 from the city and on average (important word there) the country is going to win out for wife material.
This doesn’t mean you have to move to some small town or the boonies (unless of course you want to do that anyways, and there are some good arguments in favor of that) but just understand how these things work. Just like one wanting to immerse themselves in “game” move to the city you can do the opposite but for a different purpose.
There Are No Guarantees
Now you could have a non-religous public school girl from the middle of D.C. who would make an absolutely phenomenal wife meanwhile have a religious homeschooled girl from the country who would a horrible wife. There are no guarantees and there are always exceptions. All this is meant to do is statistically speaking lead you in the right direction and put the odds in your favor.
Nothing more and nothing less. These are not guarantees, they’re trends and statements of fact. What you do with them is up to you. And none of them matter if you don’t spend the time working on yourself and covering your p’s and q’s so to speak. For those that are marriage minded I hope this helps.
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-Charles Sledge
