This is part 2 from Forever Alpha Blog.
In part 1 I talked about the importance of both dominance and how this is the fundamental baseline for attraction. Everything else comes after dominance. However the next step is to make sure you remain non-compliant over the long-term, as many guys seem to screw this up with their “special angel” and this causes mountains of problems.
Read part 1 here – Dominance & Non-Compliance: The 2 Keys To Attraction.
Today I’m going to talk about how to become more dominant and non-compliant without having to remind yourself all the time. It becomes second nature, and it becomes effortless. Your life is just a lot easier if you think like this automatically.
Here we go:
The truth is that they both take a while to develop. I’m also not really a fan of the fake it until you make it thing, but I concede that it can sometimes work. Here’s how you become naturally more dominant:
Selfishness
Societal Conditioning has labelled selfishness as a bad thing for many years now. To me, this is obviously hilarious as the human race would not have survived this long if people weren’t inherently selfish. We would have died off long ago. Selfishness equals survival. Again, society tries to override millennia of biology and only succeeds in fucking people up.
Selfishness makes you more dominant as it provides the foundations for success with the 3 key areas and this then leads to dominance. Set selfish goals in the 3 key areas completely disregarding what other people want, and you will become more dominant. Just watch.
Achievement
Achieving success however you define it will make you more dominant in general. Dominance in terms of women specifically will come from past successes with women. Basically, if you reach level 3 or 4 as described in the first link above, you will become more dominant. It’s hard not to. Enter the top 20% of men sexually, and you are guaranteed to become more dominant.
Confront Your Fears
Nothing will make you feel quite as invincible as facing your fears head on. These will vary from one person to another, but mine was always public speaking a few years ago. I was terrified of it, and my mouth would freeze up and go all weird and salivary. I forced myself to improve however, and eventually got decent at it.
Many guys are terrified of approaching women. Do it anyway, start a general conversation with the girl and have a friendly little back and forth, and then be blunt and ask her out. You’ll get rejected a lot but you’ll get over it.
Once you realise the fact that your fears are not real and that they can’t stop you, you will become more dominant in general. You realise you have the power to change your surroundings to your liking. Nothing can stop you.
Summary
- Set completely selfish goals with sex, money and fitness.
- Sleep with a lot of attractive women and get into the top 20% of men in this area.
- Confront any other fears you may have – none of them are real.
Non-compliance is the trickier of the two, at least in my opinion. Clearly most men would agree – their actions prove this. You must become dominant first, by the way. I’m yet to see a truly non-compliant guy who isn’t dominant. I’ve never seen a guy who consistently refuses to cave into women’s demands who isn’t in the top 20% of men sexually. Sexual dominance always comes first.
I would also argue that a lot of non-compliance is a direct result of your lifestyle. Let me expand:
Have An Exciting Life
A man who says yes to everything a woman asks of him is clearly saying to the world: “I don’t have a lot going on in my life and she is literally my one and only source of happiness.”
Compare this to the guy who has a business that he loves, a great social life (outside of her), strong male friendships, exciting fitness goals, travels to cool places a lot, and has hobbies that bring him great pleasure. This guy is not going to want to sacrifice all of that for a woman. Or even part of it. His life is already great without her. She becomes the cherry on top, rather than the centre of his existence.
Always Be Working Towards One Or Two Exciting Projects Or Goals
This is linked to the first one, but a man without a purpose is by default a feminine man, and will always be swayed by the external. The feminine is malleable, and adapts to its surroundings. The masculine stands strong despite being buffeted by its surroundings. You must be working towards something that excites you. This is the number one priority, and you will not be swayed by her. This is on top of having a full, interesting life already.
Have Multiple Valuable Options
I can tell you from vast experience that this is the key to abundance mentality. It’s actually very difficult to become compliant it you have this set-up. If a woman demands that you sacrifice your fantastic life and all the other attractive women, you will laugh in her face (if you’re an asshole) or give her the “this isn’t the right time, let’s take it easy for now and see what happens” speech (if you’re a bit more tactful).
Summary
- Lead an interesting, fun and varied life. A boring life will make you more compliant with women, and thus, less attractive.
- Always prioritise your goals and your purpose. They keep you excited and well-centered.
- Have legitimate abundance. This is the Cream Of The Crop model, which is far superior to the First Girl That Likes Me model.
Dominance is the foundation for all attraction, despite what society says. A dominant man in the top 20% of the male population is capable of attracting all the women, however he will be happier with Submissive’s in longer-term relationships.
Non-compliance compliments your dominance and makes it long-term sustainable. It will make you stand out from the rest, as very few men maintain their dominance. It will further increase attraction in all relationships you have with women; even in casual relationships with Dominant’s, who unfortunately chose the Societally Conditioned route of misery. Poor them.
Get good in both areas and you’ll be laughing ☺
