Introducing Stefan Simonovic’s first installment of his weekly column. Stefan has written many guest posts for the site and has been invited to write a column a week for the site covering a variety of different topics. For those who don’t know Stefan runs multiple dating sites and writes about dating tips and tricks for men to get the most out of their relationships with women. In this column he writes about 5 important steps that one should take to pickup girls effectively on Tinder. Enjoy.
You would really have to be a proper caveman not to know about the amazing smartphone app that is Tinder. You won’t get to see Instagram stars or Snapchat celebs on here – this piece of software is exclusively used for dating and, more importantly, hooking up.
When it comes to picking up girls, there’s no better app than Tinder. Not even PlentyoFish or OKCupid can match it in terms of allowing people to hook up easily. If you’re looking for getting laid fast, then Tinder is the thing for you. In that name, here are five steps on how to pick up chicks via Tinder.
1. First Impression
Since Tinder works at a very fast pace, you have to make sure that the women who even take a glance at your profile get attracted to you. The best way to do this is with a good photo.
This app is superficial, which means you have a second or less to make a good first impression. If you want to make a chick pay attention to you, upload a good photo of your face – make sure it shows your best side. The rest of your photos should be attractive as well, just from different angles and distances.
2. Multiple Platforms
Tinder requires that you register through your Facebook profile. However, make sure that you create a separate, brand new profile on Facebook so that you can edit it in a way that could attract most girls.
For example, it’s a good idea to go around Facebook and leave a like on things you know most girls like. TV shows, movies, books, celebs… It doesn’t really matter what it is as long as it increases the number of common interests you have with any given chick.
3. Always Swipe Right
No matter how much of a player you think you are, the reality is that women are those who choose when, where and with whom they’re going to sleep with. It’s because of this that it’s probably a much better idea if you keep swiping right on Tinder no matter what happens.
When you swipe right, it means you like someone. Being picky doesn’t work in your favor if you want to get laid, so make sure you use the numbers to your advantage and just swipe right at all times.
4. Sending Messages
You don’t want to date anyone nor are you trying to show a girl how romantic you can be – the sole purpose of messages on Tinder is to figure out if a girl is DTF (down to f***) and to get her number.
Hookups on Tinder are set up for that day, so if a girl start wiggling around and asks to postpone a meeting for tomorrow, just say “bye” and move on to the next.
5. Be Efficient
Like we’ve said, Tinder is all about being fast and not wasting time. This isn’t only applied to chatting with a girl, but to your overall experience on this app.
No matter what you do, do everything with efficiency. Don’t waste time on choosing the perfect photo, chatting with a girl who doesn’t seem to be DTF or picking out the most attractive chick on Tinder. Time is money – or in this case, sex.
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-Charles Sledge
