A Hack That Makes Quitting Porn 10x Easier

Quitting an addiction (or even a bad habit) can be a very difficult process depending on a variety of factors. Anything that can be done to help you in quitting should be taken advantage of. Quitting porn is no exception. Let’s get one thing straight no matter which way you slice it porn is at best a waste of time and at worst something far darker and potentially life destroying. My point is in no way is porn good for you nor should it be a part of your life. I don’t say this for religious or Feminist reasons but rather for masculine reasons.

Watching other guys bang hot girls while you whack it, is pathetic. Think about it your essentially training yourself and your mind to be a cuckold. Would you go to a guy’s house and watch him have sex with a girl you thought was hot through the window? Most of you are saying “Of course not, that’d make me some weird loser”. Well porn is no different. When you sit back and really think about what porn is you can’t help but be disgusted with it. Again not for moral reasons (religious or Feminist) but rather because of your own innate pride of being a man. If you think porn isn’t a problem for you I’d encourage you to answer these questions. Also if something is wasting even one iota of your time then guess what? It’s a problem.

Cutting The Link

When you masturbate (and more importantly orgasm) you are releasing a flood of chemicals into your brain, feel good chemicals in this case. Your body is naturally going to want to do whatever it was that you did to go through that experience again. When you watch porn while masturbating the images and scenes stimulate your brain who only sees hot women (not that they’re virtual and that some other guy is banging them). This stimulation combined with the release of feel good chemicals gets embedded in your brain every time you masturbate to porn.

Put another way “neurons that fire together wire together”. Put another way when you whack it your training your brain to respond to your hand and a computer screen instead of a real woman. You see the way it’s supposed to work is you become a man and therefore attract a woman/women and bang them. Your brain records (or whatever) this and tries to do it again and again. Porn hijacks this entire process by wiring a very powerful experience (orgasm) that should be experienced with a woman to your hand a screen. However there is a way to cut this link and help get rid of porn completely.

Keep Em Separated

So one of the most powerful ways that porn keeps a hold on you is through orgasm. You brain isn’t going to want to lose that feeling and if it feels porn is the only way to keep it, you can be your ass it’s going to fight against cutting it out of your life. So I have come up with a hack that is going to cut this link between porn and orgasm. And the thing is it doesn’t even involve quitting porn completely (even though that is obviously the end goal). So you can still watch porn (though eventually you should get rid of it entirely) and masturbate (again eventually should be replaced with gorgeous women/woman).

You can watch porn but then you can’t masturbate that day likewise you can masturbate but you cannot watch porn on that same day. Also you cannot masturbate to porn fantasies (meaning porn stars and scenes you have seen). You have to keep them separated. Obviously this in and of itself isn’t likely enough to quit porn completely but it is a step in the right direction. I don’t necessarily agree with the cold turkey approach as it puts a lot of pressure on you and can backfire tremendously or turn you into some weird zen freak (look at some parts of NoFap). We are here to live life men not to switch from losers jerking to porn to losers not interacting with the world.

It’s Just Not Worth It

Look porn sucks. It’s like weed at best it doesn’t do you any favors. It’s something made for losers to extract money from them by giving them a temporary high and then when they return back to earth and realize their still losers they need it even more. Porn will never fulfill you and as a matter of fact will leave you unfulfilled. I don’t care if you want to bang a different woman every night or want to have a successful long term commitment with one great woman. Porn will hold you back from both.

There are plenty of reasons to quit porn. It’s garbage. Remember the old saying garbage in, garbage out. Uncuck your mind and toss porn to the curb. Cut it from your life, whatever it takes. Maybe it’ll be a gradual thing, maybe it will be cold turkey. Only you know what is best for you. Of course you must replace porn with girls you can’t have your sex life exist in a vacuum or turn away from it like many NoFappers. No be a man fully and completely. Cut out porn and have real sexual relations with real women.

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-Charles Sledge