This is a chapter from my book Understanding Women: Everything A Man Needs To Know About Women. Enjoy.
Even with as ass backwards as our society is even the brainwashed masses of the Western world are starting to come around to the idea that women enjoy being dominated and in no place does this hold more true than in the bedroom. Why this is, is up for debate. It could be the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, the spreading of red pill thoughts, or who knows maybe people are finally pulling their heads out of their asses. Regardless the fact of the matter is that women love being dominated, especially in the bedroom and that it shouldn’t have taken so long for men to (re)figure this out. Women want to be a man’s sexual plaything.
However once you know the truth it doesn’t matter how you got there or how long it took you. As learning the truth later rather than never is still infinitely better than never learning the truth in the first place. So if you haven’t already throw out any notions that women only want to be caressed and cuddled with. And completely burn any notions that women want to have an equal relation with a man. Women were created to be submissive to men.
The notion of equality is not only wrong but not possible. In a relationship you will never have a fifty fifty split between the power someone will always have the upper hand. It should be the man. Some people may break down forty sixty but my point remains never is there are even split in the power in a relationship. When the man holds more power the relationship has a chance to work should the man want it to and know how to make it work. When the woman holds more power the relationship will never work. The woman will either cheat or be miserable because she’s not attractive enough to cheat.
What does it mean to be a sexual plaything? Within the bedroom women want to be used as a tool for your sexual gratification. They want you to use them, bend them, and command them to please you. Granted this must be in the context of you being a strong man as they will not want to submit to a weak man. They get off on knowing that a man is getting sexual gratification from them and being dominated. They love being spanked, choked, talked dirty too, and so on and so forth. Put simply they want to be used a sexual plaything in the bedroom.
Women want to submit to men in the same way that men want to take possession of beautiful women physically. It is a naturally and healthy reaction. Women want to be lost in a man’s passion, dominance, and power. They want to be swept away by it and know that they are at least in part the cause of it. They want to be devoured by their man in the bedroom. Women want to be taken and ravished.
Being a man’s sexual plaything means being a sexual object. Yes, the thing that women (more like fat Feminists) say they hate more than anything is what they want more than anything in the bedroom. To be an sexual object. To be used for their man’s sexual gratification. To be objectified completely in the bedroom. Again to be a man’s sexual plaything.
Women don’t want to hold power, it goes against their nature. Like a man doesn’t want to be weak no matter what he may say to himself in the mirror. However women do want men to hold power over them. Men who have power over them in a turn on for women. They may not admit it, they might say they hate it, but biology always wins in the end. Remember what a woman’s says means nothing, it’s what they do that counts. And what they do is submit to dominant men.
Going back to 50 Shades of Grey why do you think it sold so well? Because of how much women hated it? Or because of how unsatisfied women are. Women will go and say how they hate men who think women should submit to them but then be unsatisfied because no man dominates them (no one ever accused them of being logical creatures). And men who listen to women (poor fools) continue to do what women say they want instead of doing their own thing. They neuter themselves so that women feel safer around them while killing any potential sexual attraction. They make themselves equal with them which against kills any sexual attraction (not to mention respect the woman may have had for the man).
Women want to be a man’s sexual plaything. That want to be taken, used, and ravished by a strong, dominant man. They always have and they always will. Doesn’t matter what society, religion, crazy ideology, or whatever else was going on around them women have deep down wanted the same things. Women want men to be the leader, they want to be submissive to the man. When a man doesn’t take the lead it leaves the woman unfulfilled. Like a fat woman who wear sweatpants and flip flops and sucks at cooking leaves a man unfulfilled.
It’s because she hasn’t embraced her femininity and a man who doesn’t dominate and lead hasn’t embraced his masculinity. Which will repel women like nothing else. It should show how far our society has fallen that something as natural as a man dominating a woman and using her as a sexual plaything has a specific label and subcategory to it. And is labeled kinky sex when in reality it’s the most natural and primal sex there is. But that’s what happens when you live in an unnatural, unhealthy society.
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