Why are you where you’re at in your life? Why are you living the life that you live? Why are you at the point in your life that you are now at? Alright so that was pretty much such saying the same thing three different ways but you get the point. So now to answer the question, to answer the why. Now the answer might surprise you especially with the way that most are raised in today’s world.
The reason you are where you are is because of you. That’s right, you and you alone. You are responsible for the life you are living. Not outside forces but internal forces. That is what matters, that is what creates the life around you. You do. If you’re in a negative place it isn’t because of feminists, your family, this, or that, it is because of you. You must accept responsibility for your life and your actions. This is the beginning of power. It is all on you and it is all up to you.
You Create Your Life, Take Responsibility
You are not a victim, you were not born powerless. You have power but you must use and cultivate it. You have more potential than you could ever use, you’ve been given a mind greater than any piece of technology out there. The person who decides if you rise above the clouds or sink to the depths is you. You decide your fate. You are the greatest asset and obstacle to your success. Once you take responsibility you can then start taking action.
When you live with a victim mindset is handicaps you from every developing, from ever doing anything that might get you out of that mindset. It prevents you from ever realizing much less using your power. It puts you in a prison of your own making. A prison of your own mind. The victim mentality is pushed from all angles and all corners around us. From mainstream society, to religious institutions, to even red pill resources. It’s not your fault it’s the evil X, Y, Z’s fault that you are in the situation you are in. This is bullshit.
Take The Wheel
You are the driver of your own life. When you don’t take charge things are going to fall apart. You must not only take charge of your life bur direct it every step of the way. You must plan out where you want to go and then take every step to get there. Others aren’t going to do it for you. When you are not in charge of your own life it creates a power vacuum. A power vacuum that will be filled somehow, either by outside sources or from a negative mindset.
Outside sources do not have your best interests at heart and a negative mindset will cripple any potential that you may have. You must be the leader and you must take charge. That is the only way to get to where you want to go. Imagine you are in a car with four other people who each want to go somewhere that benefits them. Who is going to have their way? Whoever’s in the driver seat that’s who. Make sure that in your own life you are the one in your driver seat.
The Cavalry Ain’t Coming
No one is coming to save you. You’re not a woman or child. Society will watch you rot and laugh. You are a man and must forge you way forward in this world. You must take claim of what you want. No one else is going to do it for you and sitting and crying about how things aren’t fair sure as hell aren’t going to do it either. If you’re successful or want to be successful you have to get rid of the loser’s mentality. The reason my life sucks is because of the big bad meanies out there. Not because I haven’t sacked up and carved the life out I wanted.
Things may suck but then again they may not. It really doesn’t matter. Not to a man anyways. Throw him in any environment and he’ll make it out and claim his own. Either adapt or die. This is the way of the world. You can cry about it or you can find your ballsack and meet the world blow for damn blow. You have two choices in this life grow and soar or don’t and die. That’s it. Make the right choice.
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