There are some things that you need to do before heading to the strip club to ensure that you get maximum benefit from each and every outing. You want to make the most out of each and every night and there are certain things that you can do to make sure that this happens. Just like there are things you can that’ll maximize your success at regular clubs or anywhere else. Proper preparation is essential to a successful and good night out. Here I’m going to lay out steps to take to increase your success rate and get the most out of the night.
Some are things that’ll take time to build up but have good rewards while others are things that you can do right away to make sure you are going to have a good night. Regardless if you’re wanting to hit up a strip club while your out in a new city on vacation or just at home and want a girl that’s a freak be sure to follow all the advice lain out here. Plus this advice will help you in other areas as well not just with picking up strippers from the strip club.
It’s funny you’ll hear guys who have hundreds of article about picking up girls yet never mention working out once. Look looks aren’t everything but they are something and it never hurts to look good and be in shape. Sure looks alone won’t get you all the girls that you want but they sure as hell help. It makes no sense to not take advantage of everything that you have to use for your advantage and looks is one of them. Trust me if the average pickup teacher spent as much time working on looks (and mental health) as he did chasing girls his success rate would sky rocket.
Instead of having to get over the hurdle of being a weird wimp or fat kid he’d have girls come to him because he was in shape. Hit the gym, strippers like all women like men who look good over men who don’t all else being equal. Hit the gym and get your weight up. This attract more women to you as well as lessen the chances that any guy messes with you. Plus it’s healthy and good for you. That’s a win – win – win situation. And sure this isn’t something that’ll help you right away but there are big payoffs down the line.
A lot of people like to use different tricks and hacks to appear high status but there are much better ways to go about doing this. Strippers (like all women ever) are attracted to men that have high status. Here I’m going to tell you the best ways to demonstrate high status without doing lame or cheesy moves that people who’ve never been high status try to resort too. First and foremost have a good mindset about yourself, simply meaning have confidence in yourself and think you’re great. Alright yeah that basics but it’s a basic that means a lot.
Next carry yourself high status. Know what you’re doing and where you’re going. Walk around with a sense of purpose the strippers are going to pick up on this. Also how you sit with your body language. All you all scrunched up like a boy who is scared of the world or are you spreading out like a man who is king of his domain? Add strong masculine demeanor and body language to dressing nice and you have a potent combination. You don’t have to wear a suit and a suit would look ridiculous in some clubs. But dress nice be the best dressed one there so that you stand out.
It helps to do recon on a club before heading out for it. This means doing things like checking out any specials that it might have (if they’re not that good then that’s probably prime time to go) as well as where the club is, what the cover is, what type of strip club it is, their rules, their reviews, and all sorts of other information. This holds especially true when you’re going to a club when you’re out of town. You might even want to call and ask about it to get as much information as you can. Especially if your only in town for a couple of days and want to know the best places where you’ll have the best chance.
But even if it’s just a strip club that’s down the road you’ll still want to check it out. When you have things down and are just looking to pickup a girl I’d generally recommend going later in the night. Not too late to where all of the strippers will generally be with guys (though that can be worked around obviously) and not too early where things haven’t heated up yet. However do what works for you, I’ve shown up early and late before as well. When you first start out you might want to show up early to get a feel for everything.
It’s always good to have the basics covered regardless of what you’re doing. Being in good shape, well dressed, with a confident walk, good body language, and a masculine presence will help you in every area of your life. So make sure you get that covered no matter what. It’ll help you from the board room to the bedroom. Also you’ll want to do some recon on where you’re headed. You don’t want to end up somewhere that isn’t going to be worth your time. Show up early, midway through the night, and late see what works for best for you and at what club.
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