Why Porn Will Never Fulfill You

Porn is one of the main arms of societal control and one of the main factors in the destruction of masculinity and men. Porn makes men observers instead of action takers, it makes men complacent instead of improving themselves and the world about them. It can destroy a man’s sex drive making a twenty year old man otherwise healthy male have erectile issues as well as warp a man’s sexuality. Porn like Feminism is a cancer.

I’ve written about the effects of pornography before. Few things have the potential to damage a man’s life such as pornography. Take a healthy young male and place him in front of pornography (the younger the greater the effect) and give it a few years and his mind and sexuality will be completely warped. It makes virile strong carnivorous men, men who are predators into complacent lazy weak herbivorous men, into prey. I don’t necessarily mean carnivorous and herbivores in that one eats meat and the other plants (though that is true to an extent) but rather the behavioral patterns that each will display.

The Cycle

Porn works by stimulating your sexual appetite then pretending to fill it. It makes you horny yet afterwards you feel unfulfilled and still needing more. It functions as a drug. It overloads the reward center of your brain causing you to want more and more of it. Yet like a drug ultimately it never fulfills you. This can lead men to going to different and freakier porn to get that same dopamine rush they need to get off.

For example a healthy male who started watching straight male and female porn could after a couple years start watching homosexual porn or even transsexual porn whatever it takes to get that dopamine rush. Put simply porn fucks your sexuality up big time. In addition to this it wires you brain to be turned on by pixels of your particular fetish or even the device you use itself. So the site of your computer or a particular fetish can get more to get your brain going than a hot blonde in a sundress smiling at you as she walks by. This is a life no one wants to live.

Porn and Soda

Perhaps an another analogy will help you to see what I mean. When the average American is thirsty they will often reach for soda, for example say they grab a bottle of Coke. The Coke is liquid so you would think it would satiate your thirst and it also tastes good. However after drinking the Coke you would be even more dehydrated and thirstier in the long run. In the moment it might feel like the Coke was quenching your thirst and it has properties that make you want another but it has done nothing but make your dehydration worse. With the average American male (and soon female) is horny and feeling the need for sex instead of going out or dialing up a number in their phone they will boot up their laptop. There they will get off to whatever it is they want to yet in the long run will end up even more sexually unfulfilled.

Contrast that with water. When you are thirsty and drink a glass of water you feel better and your body is functioning better. It is wholesome and natural. It works with your bodies system and does what it needs to to fulfill your bodies need for water. It is healthy and good for you and it solves your need at its deepest level. This is like having sex with beautiful women. It is healthy and natural and solves a deep biological need that porn will never fulfill. Porn will lead you down a cycle of frustration and anger because it can never truly fulfill you and will leave you hungrier in the long run.

Break Free

Like replacing soda with water, replacing porn with healthy sex will make your life incredibly better. You will feel satiated and actually be fulfilled. You will have no feelings of frustration after release but will resume your natural cycle. The cycle mankind has followed since its inception. The natural and healthy cycle. Simply telling someone to quit porn is not enough especially if they don’t know how to attract women. Learn the dynamics that underlie interactions between men and women, ditch the porn, and go out and live a life of fulfillment.

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-Charles Sledge