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Porn And Effeminacy

Porn And Effeminacy by Charles Sledge

There are many reasons to cut porn out of your life. From helping you to socialize better, to getting better with women, to having a deeper and more masculine voice, to increasing your energy levels. In many ways cutting out porn can be like giving yourself a superpower depending on how much you watch and how often. Porn is a toxic poison there is no doubt about it. It adds nothing to your life while taking much away from your life. It’s addictive and drains your zest for life.

Porn prevents you from solving problems and becoming better. It’s worse than weed which is another escape that the weak use. One of the first things I recommend that men do when they come to me for advice on how to improve their life I tell them “cut out porn” this is often met with shock and many just won’t do it. Porn could very well be the inhibitor that keeps from at 20 MPH when you have to potential to go 100 MPH. Porn could be the one thing keeping you from a life of freedom.

The Reality Of Porn

Yet despite all this many will continue to watch it and keep it in their lives. Yet many fail to grasp the reality of what porn is and what it is doing to them. I’m not here to talk about the common reasons people tell you to quit porn which are questionable at best (think Feminist/Judeo-Christian belief that women are perfect angels who are being exploited by evil awful men B.S.) but rather why you should cut it out for yourself and yourself alone.

Let’s start with this, what is porn? Specifically what is it’s purpose? In general to give males who have no access to women the illusion that they do, porn is to males what romance novels are to females. It’s a coping mechanism and like all unhealthy coping mechanisms keeps whatever the underlying issue is from being resolved. Watch porn your entire life and you may never get off your ass and go make money or learn game because you’ll feel like you already got what you want. But it gets even worse than that.

Cuckold Training

Let me ask you a question. How many of you would go up to a house of an attractive woman and watch her have sex with a man through the window while you whacked off to it? I really hope that all of you are shouting (if just in your head) “Hell no, that’s weird and weak” and you’d be right. Now I’m going to ask you “How much different is porn than that?”. You watching a man have sex with an attractive woman because you are either too lazy (or some other undesirable quality) to go out and get an attractive woman on your own.

Your training yourself to sit in a corner and whack it while real men have sex with women. You’re training yourself to be a cuckold by watching porn. Instead of socializing with real women and learning valuable skills you’re training your mind to get off on other men having sex with a woman you find attractive. How pathetic is that? Can you imagine a strong man doing that? When you sit down and really think about you realize how pathetic and weak porn actually is.

Be A Man

A man can go out and get his own woman. A man has enough pride in himself to not jack off to other men sleeping with women they want. Porn makes you weak and effeminate. I’m saying that there aren’t masculine men who watch porn because there are but they would be even more masculine if they cut it out. Just like there are masculine men who never hit the gym yet it always helps to do so. My point is regardless of how you look at it porn adds nothing to your life.

At the very least by cutting it out you’ll save time for things that are productive such as reading, fighting, and learning essential skills.┬áDon’t be a weak effeminate little pussy who gets off on real men sleeping with the woman he desires. Instead chuck porn to the curb, get off your ass, and get in the game. Removing porn can do nothing but good things for you, there is literally no downside to getting rid of it. So if you want to get the most out of life (and why wouldn’t you) get rid of that shit today.

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-Charles Sledge

Charles Sledge

  • Scarto argento

    The werewolf analogy is a favorite of mine to help me stay motivated . think of it like this, before you wasted your load on the naughty babysitter scene, you had that drive ,that energy , that ! I don’t give a fuck I’m a go out and get it mentality ! So wasting your life blood / testosterone on some fleeting illusion is akin to that powerful werewolf changing back to a weak man . Be the werewolf! stay in werewolf mode . I did not come up with werewolf thing got it from one of the bloggers out there , but it’s been a favorite motivator of mine ever since. Peace !

  • Swami_Salami

    Ditching smut was one of the greatest things I’ve ever done. I agree with all your points and I personally believe this cuckold fetish people have is directly related to internet porn. We have a generation of guys who hit puberty and grew up with unlimited access to porn. It warps your brain, makes young guys think they’re inferior, and rewires you to only get off to someone else fucking a girl you find attractive.

    That edge you get when you havent fucked a girl in a while can be channeled into positive things like lifting, studying, reading etc. Most just shoot it into a tissue.

    • Sexual transmutation has probably been responsible for a good quarter of humanity’s progress if not more. Absolutely. A boy who simply doesn’t watch porn is going to be head and shoulders above his peers. Add in game and fitness and he’ll be a god compared to them.