This is a chapter from my book How To Get Girls: The Definitive Guide. Enjoy.
It’s unfortunate but most guys struggle with women (among other things in life). Regardless of their goals the majority of men struggle. From having successful marriages to banging all the hotties they want very few males have the ideal sex life, very few males get all that they want out of life. It’s unfortunate but it’s true. However there are a select group of men who do know how to get what they want in life and with women among other things. That men that occupy that highest rung of the sexual pyramid. The twenty percent of men who get eighty percent of women or whatever the statistic is. These men understand that the number one key to having sex with lots of beautiful women has to do with having an emotional impact.
While having a successful marriage takes a lot more, having sex with beautiful women does not. Learn how to impact a woman’s emotions and you’ll never be sleeping alone (except of course when you want to). Sounds nice doesn’t it? Bringing home that hottie from the bar when you want, banging that girl in class who always wears the short shorts, or picking up that hot business woman from the conference. It all comes down to this thing and this thing is having an emotional impact. For one night stands and quick lays this is your number one goal, to have an emotional impact on a woman.
How To Make An Emotional Impact On A Woman
Making an emotional impact on a woman isn’t hard. For starters you cannot care or be afraid of her reaction, let me repeat that. Her reaction should not deter you. You need to hold your frame completely and unashamedly. You will get tested but you should know how to pass those. Don’t give in to her test. Regardless of how she reacts you must hold the frame. This is the foundation upon which having an emotional impact is made, a weak man will have trouble making an emotional impact because he will give in too quickly and therefore any attraction and intrigue created will quickly dissipate.
I’ve talked about teasing women before and related it to a balloon. Where women walk around with inflated balloons where most men come up to them and pump more air into the balloon (by lavishing praise and worship on them usually) which just bores women and turns them off. Compare that with a guy who goes up and busts her chops or tease he a little popping the balloon and getting her attention. The guy who “insults” a woman is going to have a much bigger emotional impact than the guy who gets on his knees and compliments her.
Can Be Positive Or Negative
This may surprise you but your emotional impact does not have to be positive, it can be negative and still have a strong effect. Of course you need to strive for some sort of balance as well as positive is usually preferred but even negativity is preferred over indifference. Indifference is the death of attraction there must tension and emotions involved. Negative emotions are better than no emotions by a long shot. As a matter of fact sometimes used in the right way using negative emotions can be even more beneficial than using positive emotions.
Let’s look at the backhanded compliment and why it is so effective. It causes two kinds of emotional spikes both positive and negatives. This combination of the two makes it doubly effective. It causes positive emotion by being a compliment but also negative emotions by being backhanded. For an in depth explanation of the backhanded compliment reference the article above as well as this one by Relampago Furioso. They will tell you all you need to know about effectively using the backhanded compliment.
The Number One Factor
When it comes to one night stands and quick lays having an emotional impact is the number one factor involved. Give women emotional impacts and keep them coming and you will not be going home alone. Having an emotional impact is also important in long term relationships as well it just isn’t the number one factor. No matter who you are or what your intentions are it’s important that you learn how to have an emotional impact on a woman and are not scared to do so. All you need to do is have an emotional impact and you can get laid a lot. Like all a woman has to do is look good to have sex with the guys she wants all a man has to do is have an emotional impact.
This it the number one key to having lots of one night stands with good looking women. Do this combined with keeping a few other tips in mind and presenting yourself properly and you’ll never have trouble at a bar or out on the town again. Remember getting laid is simple not complicated. It doesn’t require a lot and far too many males spend way to much time on this subject when it is easy to master. Remember women (or a woman) should never be your number one priority and never be the focus of your life. Regardless if your banging a different woman every night or with the love of your life. A woman/women is never the focus.
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