The key to getting out of just about any problem in your life is to bury yourself in your self-improvement. You want to develop yourself to the point that you get new problems. Meaning that you have outgrown your old problems and now are confronting new ones. You’ve whipped up on the amateur circuit and now are going pro. Most people never dedicate themselves to their self-improvement and get whipped around by life because of it. Growth is the only way forward, you need to be prepared for what comes down the road.
Life is going to throw you many challenges and you need to be prepared for them. It’s not a matter if you’ll ever step in the ring it’s a matter of when. Not dedicating yourself to your self-improvement is like a man who has a fight coming up yet does nothing to prepare for it. He takes not interest in learning how to fight, where to hit someone, or getting on a work regime. He just sits back and then is clobbered when the time comes. And the thing about life is, is that it keeps putting you in the same ring until you win.
Conquer Your Problems
Burying yourself in your self-improvement is the way to conquer your problems and live the life of freedom we all desire. Self-improvement is not a choice for men. The world will either conquer us or we will conquer it. There is no go between no safe spaces to crawl into. We are standing stark naked at the front lines and must conduct ourselves as such. Winter is coming, barbarians are coming, however you want to put it life is a battle for man so he must prepare for combat.
Wealth, combat, women man will be challenged by them all. Weakness in any area will be exploited and used against him. A fort is useless if one of the walls is left completely open. The same can be said of your life. Neglect one area and it will be your undoing. How many rich men have been destroyed because they didn’t understand women or how many guys who thought they were “alpha” or whatever got beat down and seriously injured or killed. Granted in our society physical violence isn’t as much of a threat as it has traditionally been but nevertheless one encounter with the wrong person can change it all.
The Proper Response To Pressure
In life whenever you feel the pressure coming on you know that life has started throwing punches your way. What you need to do to come out a winner is to develop yourself so what was once seemingly insurmountable pressure now doesn’t even register. You have grown, evolved, and became more than what you were. You have transformed yourself through sheer will, knowledge, and action. You have become more than what you were and this is what life is all about.
You must improve until the grave. This is the burden of man to be in constant fight. At first this sounds daunting and hopeless. However you eventually learn to love the fight. Seriously once you get knocked around a couple times and learn how to fight back then the challenge invigorates you instead of crushes you. However you cannot make the fatal mistake of hoping it ends because it doesn’t. You must rise up against it. There is no hide, only fight or die.
At The End
When all is said and done you will be able to hold your head with pride. Others around you were crushed and defeated but you stayed true until the very end. You did not kneel, you did not submit, you did not lose. You fought with the best of them and ran your race as a man should. However this all comes from your self-development. If this is something you have neglected you need to get on it right away. Just because you’ve been fine up until this point doesn’t mean you will be down the road.
There is no time to waste. You need to grow and grow fast. We were given little to no preparation for life. Our parents, schools, society, and government have all failed us and left us for the wolves. Some purposely some because they didn’t know any better. But it doesn’t matter because a large part of being a man is taking responsibility for our lives. It is up to us, we cannot rely on others.
You must invest in yourself. It is the best investment that you will ever make and the only investment that all successful people in any field share. The wolves are coming but if you turn yourself from a sheep into a lion it’s not really going to matter much when they do come, is it? But then you must develop even more from that point on. Man was created to chase after perfection with the world as his testing ground. Fight the good fight and you’ll turn out alright.
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