Can You Seduce A Woman With Eye Contact Alone?

Can You Seduce A Woman With Eye Contact Alone? by Charles Sledge

This is a chapter from my book How To Get Girls: The Definitive Guide. Enjoy.

Never ever underestimate the undercurrents of an interaction. What I mean by that is everything that is going on in an interaction other than the words said (which honestly barely matter at all). You do not seduce a woman through your words. Let me repeat that you do not seduce a woman through your words. You seduce her through your intentions and desires. Through your “vibe” which is created by your thoughts. That is how you seduce a woman. Touch and eye contact will “say” more to a woman than one thousand sonnets ever would or could. Words do not matter in seduction.

So can you seduce a woman with eye contact alone? Of course it’s possible as just about everything is possible but that is not exactly what this article is going to be about. Eye contact says more than any other form of communication when you look a woman directly in the eyes unapologetically and without fear you are communicating to her on the deepest level possible. Not to sound flowery but your are communicating to her on a soul to soul level, a primal level. And the primal level is where sex is.

Eye Contact And Seduction

Eye contact is one of the best ways to communicate your desire to a woman and arouse her own desire for you. Women want to be wanted. When you want them and are unafraid to show it they want you back. Your eyes communicate what is within. And when you are a man who is unafraid of his desire you are going to communicate that to a woman. This isn’t to brag simply to illustrate something but I have locked eyes with women and known that they wanted me that instant. I have found that the more forward and bold I am the better off I am.

Whenever I have tried to hide that desire it ended up with both me and the woman being unsatisfied. When you make eye contact with a woman do so without apology. Do not be the first to look away. The eye contact should be prolonged, direct, and intense. Looking back this and touch are the most effective methods of seducing women that I have found. Simply making strong eye contact, smiling seductively, and touching a woman with desire is enough to seal the deal.

Directed Thought

Now there may be some of you who are saying I make eye contact with women all the time and nothing is there. That would then be a problem with your desire. You must have sexual tension with women. This is conveyed through eye contact but only eye contact with directed thought behind it. This means you want to project your thoughts and sexual desire for a woman through your eyes into hers. Your thoughts are going to shine through when you make intense eye contact with a woman. Not a word by word replay obviously but the feeling, which is what matters anyways. Project that feeling, that primal desire you have for her into her eyes.

You want to project your masculine and sexual wants and desires to her. Hold nothing back. Communiate it all to her through your eyes. This is no time for inhibitions. Never underestimate what the eyes tell and what they convey. They are called windows into the soul for a reason. You can tell a lot by someone’s eyes. I have looked men in the eyes and knew they were untrustworthy likewise I have looked men in the eyes and know they were with me to the death. With women I have looked into their eyes and seen unbridled lust waiting to be unleashed as well as a variety of other emotions.


Never underestimate the eyes. The words you say mean nothing compared to what you convey through your eye contact. The eyes can communicate more than words could ever hope to. Your intentions are going to shine through in your eyes and making intense prolonged eye contact. You should be making eye contact with everyone anyways but especially beautiful women you want to sleep with. Never be the first to look away.

You can go from looking intensely at a woman, to touching her, to kissing her, to taking her home and screwing her without a word being said. Of course communication was still happening, more communication was happening in that situation than generally happens in hour long conversations. Eye contact and desire, never underestimate either one. They both have the potential to revolutionize your game. No one needs words or phrases to say when they have primal deep seduction.

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-Charles Sledge

Charles Sledge