This is a guest post by Stefan Simonovic who runs multiple dating platforms and wants men to know all their is to know about attracting and keeping the women of their dreams. In this post Stefan talks about the biggest mistake a man can make to push a woman away. Enjoy.
Did you ever get rejected by a girl even though you thought you made all the right moves? Have you ever wondered if there was anything you did wrong while trying to get that hot woman to sleep with you? As we all know, not every guy is equipped with the proper knowledge, charm, or handsomeness that could please any woman, but there is something men do that repels women instead of attracting them and a lot of guys have it in common.
“You must be Jelly, cause jam don’t shake like that”
It’s no secret that it takes some work and finesse in order to get a girl to “take the party to your place.” Flirting in a way that will result in sex is something every man does (knowingly or otherwise), but that doesn’t mean that every guy knows how to do it properly. That being said, it’s normal to assume that some of us are missing the obvious thing that actually turns women away more than it turns them on.
Take it easy, cowboy!
If you can, try not to take this personally, but some guys actually focus on something that they’re actually not that good at in order to impress women. For example, there are men who don’t really have a sense of humor but they absolutely love telling jokes and they are convinced that this will get them laid every time. Naturally, some girls will respond positively to their efforts, but some will not and that means that these men are playing their cards wrong.
Little strokes fell great oaks…not!
Furthermore, most guys believe that the best way to get a girl to sleep with them is to get straight to the point and if that doesn’t work, just keep trying and asking the same lady over and over again until she finally gives in. Sure, being somewhat direct is not a bad thing, but coming in too strong can be a bit overwhelming for the ladies.
Where’s the Solution?
Whether you’re roaming the clubs in search for a hot hookup or you’re not afraid to meet people online for a no-strings-attached date, it’s totally normal if sex is all you want as a reward for your efforts. However, you should make sure that you’re putting your energy in the right things in order to make women stick to you instead of pushing them away.
Like we’ve said before, putting an accent on things that aren’t your best quality isn’t the best way to impress a gal, and neither is being too direct or too persistent. Instead of doing these things, why not make a few great moves that require much less effort?
Make your intentions known, but be subtle about them. When a woman knows what you’re looking for, it’s only a matter of time before you know whether she’s down with it or not. Just tip-toe around the subject for a bit, only to ultimately reveal your true intentions – this will show her that you know what you want, but also that you can be tactful about it.
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