This is a chapter from my book Understanding Women: Everything A Man Needs To Know About Women. Enjoy.
Women hate weak men. And when men allow women to walk all over them, to go along with their crazy and asinine schemes, and don’t put them in their place they hate them even more. Women do all sorts of things to get reactions from men to see if they are truly men are merely boys (or males). These are commonly referred to as shit tests but have been around long before there was any official name for them.
Some women are driven to extreme measures to see if their man has any balls. They will suggest letting another man sleep with her, emasculating him in public, or worse. Pathetically these males often go along with whatever their woman wants netting them even more resentment and hatred. What the vast majority of males fail to realize is that women want to be put in their place they are dying to be put in their place and will be attracted to whoever has the balls to put them in their place. There are some prime reasons why women want you to put them in their place explained below.
To Assert Your Masculinity Over Them
Women want masculine men, they are desperate for them. Just like men are increasing becoming more desperate for feminine looking and acting women. When a woman is with a masculine man she feels protected, she has respect for him, and perhaps most important of all (from her point of view at least) she gets horny for him. She wants to know that she is with a masculine man.
The feminine is naturally submissive and the masculine is naturally dominant. The two function best when the man is dominant and the woman is submissive. Women want you to assert your masculinity over them. To claim them and take them. This makes them feel good and horny. They will have no respect (and therefore no attraction) for a man who lets a woman put him in the submissive role. A man who has no masculinity and who defers to her. It turns them off like nothing else.
To Assure You Are Strong Enough To Protect Them
When the human mind was developing survival wasn’t easy for us, and for women especially. Being a weaker sex both physically and intellectual added in with carrying around a baby for nine months making them even more vulnerable women needed to be sure that their mate could protect them. While women are not in any physical danger anymore that wiring is still there and always will be. Women naturally respond to a man who could protect them.
Now when I say this you may think of the white knight pussies who run to “protect” women from ever being inconvenienced but this is not what I am talking about. I’m talking about the biker guy who could smash a guy’s face in if he tried harming the woman or her offspring. However that bikers size and strength would mean nothing is he is a pussy so women need to screen to insure that the man they are attracted to is the real deal. One way is by challenging him to make sure he is still the man they think he is. If he gives in the woman will begin to lose attraction for him and find a man who won’t give in to her and therefore would be a better protector of her and her offspring.
To Assure They Can Be Feminine Without Consequences
Women want to be feminine but in order to be feminine they needed masculinity. When a woman is around a masculine man who doesn’t put up with her shit she knows that she can be fully feminine safely. She knows she can fully embrace her feminine nature because she has the masculine to guide it to prevent it from becoming reckless (as it has a tendency to do). However if the man isn’t strong and does whatever she wants she cannot embrace her femininity because the male is not guiding and leading her. And won’t stop her when she has a reckless idea.
The masculine works as a check on the recklessness of the feminine. A woman left to her own devices will often destroy herself as well as those around her. However when a man keeps a check on her choices she knows that she is safe to be herself, to be feminine and submit to the man as all women wish to do. The caveat is it must be a dominant, masculine man to insure that she can safely submit.
Women want you to put them in their place. They want you to tell them “no”. To stop them, to put your foot down. They want a man they can submit to but they know that it must be a real man who isn’t going to change for them. So they test you and when you remain your dominant masculine self they love it because they know you are really what they thought you were and wanted.
A woman wants you to tell her to “shutup” from time to time, not out of anger or hate (as responding emotionally is feminine) but simply out of being true to yourself. When you constantly give in to her she loses both trust and respect in you and will begin searching for a man who is actually a man and will not change for her crap. This may not happen consciously at first it will start subconsciously but sooner or later will crop up in her subconsious mind. How many guys have you heard lament upon being left or cheated on “I did everything she wanted/asked”. Well that was the very reason she left/cheated because he wasn’t a man and didn’t maintain the frame and above all else he didn’t put her in her place.
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